Kanye's New video

I like this video, can't be said for the other two from 808!


KANYE WEST "Welcome To Heartbreak" Directed by Nabil from nabil elderkin on Vimeo.

The NBA DUD-Star Game

Maybe it was just me, but this was one of the less memorable A.S. weekends. And, I believe that the NBA is fixed (word to that janky ref). We all know Kobe and Shaq don't get along as well as the media portrays. If so, Kobe is a 'mark', my bad we are talking about Kobe.

The Dream= Hits

Okay, the song was growing on me, but after seeing the video, it's official; I like this song a lot.

WTF was M.I.A. thinking

Seriously, babies are adorable and are gifts from God, but a pregnant stomach is not appealing.

Option #2

Me: "Yea man, she been through like hella guys since her True Love"

Friend: "And she is still trying to recover"?

Those were the words that were echoed from a good friend of mine while discussing a topic about past relationships, weeks ago. As I hung up the phone, I started thinking about people who have passionately been in love, and due to reasons, it didn't work out; most of the people have never recovered fully. I think it's innate for us to medicate ourselves by thinking that the person wasn't the one for us. *Disclaimer: There are always two sides to every story, I know* But, honestly, how do we know that? If a foolish man was handed 1 Million dollars, but he didn't invest his money wisely, and squandered away the rest recklessly, was it not meant for him? I'm not one with the whole idea of a "soul mate" but I do believe that there are many people whom will compliment, some better than others. Sure, you might find someone that replaces the last, and fills the void, but you know deep down that it's not the same. I personally know of situations from friends, family members, acquaintances, etc... whom have married, not their true love, but the next best thing, and seeing them with their significant other, they just don't exuberant the same happiness. I pose this, think waking up in the morning next to the person who was basically you're second round draft pick. Better yet, having a family with them. Would that create resentment down the road, and could you ever be truly happy?

I not a psychologist or neurologist, which ever one would fall under the study of my next sentence. But, is it only possible for you to recapture your brain's love endorphins "pop cherry" feeling ever again? In the moment of uncertainty and denial, it's easy to say "he or she wasn't what I NEEDED"? It was just a want, but those same wants (when you get them) are what tickles your fancy, and stimulates you, creating a euphoric sensation through out the soul. That being said, life is too short, and if there's something you want go get it. I like to use that thought process when buying kicks. lol As I sit here and write this, I don't have the attitude like it could not happen to me because it very well could; or maybe it already has and I don't know it. IT'S SCARY!

To Be Continued!

Attn: All Ladies

Found this on the net, can almost agree with 90% of it


--Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 6 guys..you're a H*e!)

--"Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

--Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

--Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

--A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

--Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily.

--Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

--Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

--Girls are guys' weaknesses.

--Guys are very open about themselves.

--It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

--Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

--If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

--Guys will brag about anything.

--Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful.If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

--No matter how much guys talk about +##!+ and boobs, personality is key.

--Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

--Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

--Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

--Try to be as straightforward as possible.

--If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.


--If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

--When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

--When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

--Guys don't really have final decisions.

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

--If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys like femininity not feebleness.

--Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

--A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

--Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

--Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

--Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

--Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

--If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.

--Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

--A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

--No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

--Not all guys are $%*$@%++. Just because ONE is a %$@%@++ doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

--We don't like girls who are too skinny.

--We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

--Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

--Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

--When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

--Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

--Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

--Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

Cougar Crush

Kanye is notoriously known for posting "Where are you Yeezy" models on his blog. Well I'm flipping the script with Cougars. Before knowing she survived Breast Cancer, there was something about this woman's presence on TV that has drawn me to Todays Show. She's kind of has the "Tiger Woods" effect going on, but she's Egyptian, and a Delta. I would have never thought. She's also single, in here mid 40's. Damn!


Hoda Kotb

Best Commercial during SB

Another One!

They use to question our ability to play the quarterback position, and even coaching, but thanks to Tony Dungy, brothers like this Mike Tomlin will continue to create opportunities for minorities in coaching. You give us an opportunity, we will shine.